When You Fall Out Of Love...

 # the thing you fancied most about them is the thing that you start to resent💔

#settings you enjoyed together become places to be avoided due to despondent memories🌲

# some past times are hard to return to because of the mutual chemistry that flourished your initial connection⚽

#you deter from certain topics that you once revelled together in deep conversation💬

#you lack motivation in seeking a new relationship because there is a fear of repeating history or closing the chances of reconciliation... besides, you loved this person, why would you wish to replace them?🌹

#you idealise the positive aspects of the relationship. Hypothetically indulging in the fantasy that they were better than they were in reality😍

#you might question whether you actually ever loved them at all, and vice versa💭

#Bohemianism sounds waaay more appealing now🌙

#the main context of your prayers is a request for forgiveness and the humility to move on🙏

#you realise that a lot of their interests that had you caught in fascination about them were really just things you were likewise attracted to. Mutual favourite music for example, is not no longer exclusive too just you and them. Horizons broadened.🎵

#the stuff you admired about them shifts into a state of sagacity🐘

#your confidence may have taken a hit, temptation to self remedy with a movie marathon and a pot of ice cream is high on your agenda🍧

#you begin to rationalise the things that indicated how you weren't compatible; justifying why your separation was necessary👿

#the retrospective contemplation of taking the next big step in the relationship gives you chills; your inventory of prospective plans that you feel you may have missed making, emerge as potentially massive mistakes... marriage, co-habiting or starting a family etc. You just dodged a bullet!👫